Fast Food Sex? Or Nourishing Intimacy…

Too often our sex life is like fast-food… We don’t have a lot of time, we order what we’ve always had, we eat it quickly and get on with our busy schedules… But are we satisfied? Really?

Fast-Food Sexuality:

???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????Don’t get me wrong… once in a while it’s fun to have fast-food… But in the long-term, it is empty, there is no nourishment, digestion is poor, there is little enjoyment in the moment, and honestly… it gets a little boring…

With processed food, the nutrients and substance are stripped from the ingredients to get the easy stuff… the sugar… the carbs…

And similarly, in sex, we’ve gotten rid of 95% of the experience.. the intimacy, the connection, the intimacy, sensitized touch, breath, full-body orgasms, healing experiences, divine connections and infinite possibilities… all to have an orgasm that lasts a few seconds… Hmmm…

Whole Food Sexuality:

Whole foods are full of everything that the body needs.  There are vitamins, nutrients, fibre and a thousand micro-components that make the food so wonderful for us…

Similarly, true sexuality is complete. There is a wholeness about it that you can actually feel your being digesting

To actually be SEEN by another person deeply…
when you take this in, it will change you.

To actually FEEL someone’s touch on your skin radiate throughout your entire body…
this sends healing shivers and vibrations throughout your entire being.

To breathe in someone’s breath.. to mix your spirits…
the effects of this must be experienced to understand…

And then to actually connect the bodies in a meditative conscious way..
To literally “plug in” to each other..
the energy potential that can course through both of you is beyond anything we ever experience…

It is definitely a COMPLETE experience.

Fine Dining Sexuality:

And then let’s imagine taking the time to actually enjoy what we are experiencing. When we go to a fine restaurant, we look forward to taking hours to enjoy all the stages of the evening… the wine, the appetizers, the main dish, the dessert, the conversation, the ambience, the relaxation and maybe even a nice walk afterwards… No hurry… No pressure… Just pure enjoyment.

But the real joy comes if you love the restaurant and think that the chef is brilliant and you decide to go with the Chef’s special… Because in a “normal” restaurant, there is a set menu… only so many options… But a great chef is always inspired… and he is a genius… And so when we relax and put ourselves in the “chef’s” hands…

We can have a totally different, unexpected, amazing experience every time…

And it will nourish every aspect of our body, mind and soul…
in ways we can’t even imagine.

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IMG_4732About the Author: 

Katrina Bos has been studying and practicing Tantra for over 10 years… Her greatest AHA moment came when she realized that this was actually our natural ability… That we are designed to be THIS intimate and experience such incredible pleasure!! Her goal is to de-mystify this ancient teaching and share it with everyone!! Because it is truly how we are made… And we all deserve to feel that kind of pleasure, happiness and connection!! She teaches online classes and workshops around the world.

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